5.30.2007
Works For Me Wednesday~Easy Donations
5.25.2007
Friday's Feast
Name a sound you like to hear.
MOM! From the time I was a little girl I always dreamed of having a family someday with at least two kids. I have been blessed with three! So when they call out my name I love it and get that warm fuzzy feeling. And then there are days when it's my least favorite thing to hear if they had a day of endless wants and needs! Hey, I'm just trying to be truthful here folks.
And a baby with a good old belly laugh has got to be at the top of my list too. I'm looking forward to making my grandbabies laugh until they spit up ;o)
Soup
What is your favorite kind of cheese?
For a gal that never liked cheese all her life I have become its #1 fan! One day my hubby had an gyro and the feta cheese called my name big and loud. I answered it's call and ate it all. Hubby had to order extra feta! Wouldn't you say that's a weird cheese to all of the sudden want?
Salad
Do you sleep late on Saturday mornings? Why or why not?
That would be a big fat no! Even though I am on the no call list I get calls all the time and when I answer nobody is on the other end! It drives me crazy and I don't know what to do about it. Any suggestions?
Main Course
When was the last time you forgot something? What was it, and how long did it take to remember it?
LOL! I came back and had to change this answer because I forgot to publish my Friday's Feast on Friday. I only remembered because I was going to write a small post about my daughter's graduation and noticed it then. Oops!
Dessert
Fill in the blank: I notice _____when I see_____.
I notice I drool when I see Chocolate Mousse Cake. Trust me, you would too!
5.24.2007
Thursday Thirteen
5.22.2007
Still Heavyweight Champ
5.21.2007
Thank You Challenge!
Please take a moment and read her post and then come back and I'll finish my thoughts. It's okay, I'm not going anywhere! I promise I will be here just for you. Please remember to leave a comment and say hi, hello, howdy or hey!
Thank you for taking the time to go over to Sandy's. Is she right or what?
I am blessed with awesome caregivers. You all know that. Right now I may not be able to take care of them or do things for them like I want too, but my lips and heart can easily say thank you to these special people. As I write this I am teary eyed. I have shared some details of my situation, but not entirely. No, there aren't any secrets or anything like that, but it is not easy to take care of a disabled person, especially when you're still kids. My children have readily accepted the extra chores and sacrificed their "play" time to be with me so I won't ever be alone. How can I not get all teary when I think of them?
And my husband you ask? He gets up early and works so hard running his own business. If any of you do that you know it is not easy. And when he comes home at night his first priority has been me. He makes me a delicious healthy dinner and spends his evenings doing whatever needs to be done. And the poor guy loses a lot of sleep at night when I have a bad night of hurting. I try my best to be as quiet as I can during the night if I am awake from the pain. It bothers me for him to lose his much needed rest. But now I'm off on yet another tangent. I'll just end with I am majorly loved by this man!
The challenge this week is to say thank you to three people and then stop by Sandy's place and let her know. Three (3) people is a piece of cake ladies! Saying thank you to that stranger who took the time to open a door for you may be just the little pick me up they needed because they are having a bad day. You just never know!
Here is my list and it's only for Sunday.....
Thank you Jordan for washing and putting away all the dishes, making me two delicious meals, mopping my bathroom floor, and for keeping me company when everyone else was gone!
Thank you Mom for going to Walmart and looking for the ingredients to make punch for Kara's graduation this weekend so I wouldn't have to try and get out. And thank you for the homemade beef and noodles, the corned beef, the chocolate cake and the lemon creme pie! The kids have eaten most of the cake already!
Thank you Kara for washing my hair, helping me shower and then help me get dressed in something other than pajamas. Thank you for helping me get in the van. Thank you for being so patient with me all the time. You are already a fantastic nurse!
Thank you David for all the phone calls and fun text messages while you were gone this weekend. We always have so much fun being silly and goofy together, don't we? I know you worry about me when you're away. I can see it in your eyes how much it hurts to see me in pain. I'm okay. Thank you for loving me and marrying me 22 years ago!
And thank you Sandy for this nice reminder and for being my friend. Welcome to Blogville, as I like to call it. There are some very special ladies out there to get to know and love!
5.18.2007
Friday's Feast
List 3 emotions you experienced this week.
Stressed-I just realized yesterday that next Saturday my daughter is graduating from high school and I have SO much to do.
Scared anticipation-In two months I will finally be having one of my hips replaced. I've been through nine other surgeries, but I always get scared and want to chicken out right before I go.
But then I know I don't want to be on crutches the rest of my life so....
Anger-When I was coming out of my doctor appointment my husband noticed a bush on fire beside our van. We noticed four people smoking in a truck and they were throwing out their cigarette butts without a care in the world. They realized that my husband was putting out the fire with our drinks and by stomping on it, but they never offered to help. And it wasn't a small fire. I was angry because they didn't care that they started a fire that had we not been there it would have grown and caused major damage. I thought most cars had ashtrays in them. Why not put the butts in their?
Soup
Name a car you’d love to have.
This is an easy question for me! My husband built this car for a customer, but because he is so busy he doesn't have time to enjoy it so he is selling it. Oh, how I wish I could buy this for my hubby and me! If you enjoy Mustangs at all go check out this site: http://www.dvsrestorations.com/salepage.html
Salad
Describe your typical morning routine.
I wake up when the kids are ready to leave for school around 7:30. I ask hubby to help me to the bathroom. I wash my hands and face and brush my teeth. He gets ready and leaves for work. I am sitting on the edge of the bed waiting for my daughter to get up. She's been rather lazy and doesn't get up until 10:30 or so, but that's another story. While I am waiting I love on my precious bulldog and tell her how precious she is! I also play a game on my cell phone and try to beat my high scores. When she finally gets up she brings me my card table and computer to start working or reading blogs. And if she's in a good mood she will bring me a wheat bagel with flavor on it! Okay, who's jealous? Ask me this in a few months because things will have changed drastically by then!!!
Main CourseHave you ever emailed someone famous? If so, who, and what did you say to them? Did they reply?
What about actually sending a hand written letter like in the olden days? Because I wrote Donny Osmond several fan letters :o) I never got an actual letter from him, but I received a couple of autographed pictures!
Dessert
Do you listen to podcasts? If so, which ones?
No, because I have teenage children and they always have something playing in the background. Enough said!
5.17.2007
A Tag Turned Into A Thursday Thirteen
The Queen Mother of Blogville, Barb, tagged me for the meme I did a week or so ago, but who am I to say no to the Queen...I respect her so much. If you have never been to her place you are missing out! You will be greeted with open arms and you'll feel like part of her family.
And speaking of Barb, please keep her 22 month old grandson, Cameron in your prayers. He has been disgnosed with Type 1 juvenille diabetes. He's doing better right now, but please check her blog and read the whole story. Plus you will get to see the handsome little guy yourself! Bonus!
You know what's sad? I've done the weird meme like three or four times and I never have trouble coming up with more weirdness! Maybe I'll throw in a few bad habits or two.
Let's get on with it....
Whenever I eat a 3 Musketeers bar I like to ear all the chocolate off first and then eat the yummy insides! I can’t for the life of me eat it like a normal person. I don’t do this with any other candy bar if that helps ease your mind!
I give myself an injection of Humira once a week and I’m telling ya that stuff burns! Brings tears to my eyes every week. So I distract myself I like to sing out loud the theme song from The Smurfs. What’s even weirder is that I never watched that show!
To ease my hunger pains I like to either watch the cooking channel (Paula, you’re my gal!) or look through cookbooks. I wish they made a scratch and sniff cookbook. Now there’s an idea!
I’m the only one I know that does this, but when I greet people I never say Hi or Hello. I always say, “Hey!” When I have said this some respond, “Hay is for horses.” That’s when I decide if I will ever speak to them again…just kidding!
I am no fashion queen that's for sure, but I need my socks to match my t-shirt for the day!
I sleep with the fan on everynight. Even when it's cold outside. The noise helps drown out my husband's and bulldog's snoring!
I'm a bouncer. You know the annoying one that sits beside you and bounces her leg up and down and shakes the whole table? Yeah, that's me.
My checkbook has to balance to the penny. I can't sleep unless it does.
I've been told that my laugh is contagious, but I think it is loud and obnoxious.
I CANNOT STAND FEET-not even my own. Don't want to touch them and please don't put your barefeet on me. Gross!
I love, love, love to have my back tickled when I don't feel well. When I had my kidney stones and was so sick, my dear precious children would take turns and spend a half an hour a piece tickling my back. Now that's love!
Even though you may think it is immature of me I love to grab the Highlights magazine in the doctors office and do the hidden puzzle, read all the corny jokes, and see all the artwork. Oh, and who can forget about Goofus and Gallant?
I know this is wrong and I did confess this to another blogger friend, but for awhile I had magazine telemarketers calling ALL the time. I finally got fed up and when they would call I had many reasons why I couldn't but their magazines. A few were:
I am blind and don't know how to read braille.
We are on the verge of losing everything so I better not buy any right now.
If I buy a subscription would you make a donation to my favorite charity? (He said nothing and hung up.)
I have before asked a telemarketer if I listen to your spiel would you listen to me explain the plan of salvation. And she said yes! She was very friendly and polite and said she wasn't sure yet what she believed, but she thanked me and I thanked her for taking the time to listen. You just never know.
Thank you Barb for the tag! I won't be doing any tagging since all my friends have pretty much done this in one way or another. BUT if you feel the need to do it again let me know!
5.15.2007
May Day, May Day!
Explanation~hips bad.no range of motion.stuck for time being
When you cannot function you rely on everyone else to do what needs to be done. That includes bringing me a sip of water when I look dehydrated and maybe a morsel or two of food when I pass out from lack of nourishment! You know what? As much as it stinks sitting in the same spot on the side of my bed day in and day out I know there is a reason for it. Like the name of my blog says-laughing through the tears. I definitely cry a lot more than I used too. I'm just in so much pain that's inescapable it gets to me before I even realize it sometimes. The joke around here is if I scream out in pain someone will ask what happened. I laugh and say, "I moved." So if it happens again they all yell out~stop moving Mom! I dunno. Maybe you have to be here to see the humor in it.
Okay, to get off my tangent now. What I was going to sat was my family is a huge help when it comes to feeding this savage beast. I eat about every two to three hours. Not big meals, but small ones. Sometimes it may be a piece of fruit or just a carton of yogurt, but still something. My kids do a terrific job of knowing what's allowed and what really isn't. And my husband, bless his heart, comes home from work every night and cooks me a hot home cooked meal that is always out of this world!
My biggest challenge is I crave MEAT! There have been plenty of mornings when I eat a turkey sandwich for breakfast. My dietitian said if that's what my body is calling for than go ahead. I allow myself 6-7 ounces of meat a day. Sometimes I do go over, but not crazy.
I drink lots and lots all day long. I do try to get a lot of water in, but I also drink a lot of Crystal Light. Mmmmmm, flavor!
I have had a hard time this week with feeling hungry ALL the time. I had to raise my Prednisone by quite a bit and until I get used to it again I will feel like I haven't eaten in weeks. My tummy growls non stop and I think I need to eat until I look at the time and realize I just ate a bowl of oatmeal 10 minutes ago! I know I have had enough food, but keeping busy helps me not think about it so I like to get on the computer and read, read, read your posts!
I know that it is possible to lose weight without any exercise. It does come off very slowly, but the key word is off! I am thankful for this challenge and being held accountable for my actions. I need to lose a lot of poundage for my health an easier recovery from surgery. Once I get my hips replaced I want to lose the weight not only for my health, but for my husband. I want to look beautiful again for him. He deserves it!
Ladies, we're all in this together! I don't know if I can be an encouragment to you with my situation, but I want to show that it can be done. Could this be one of the reasons I am where I am right now?
5.13.2007
Happy Mother's Day!
My girls had to work today, but it has been enjoyable spending the day with my mom and my two guys. After we ate we had a competitive game of Scrabble! Gggrrr, my son beat me by two points! I tried tricking him and saying I got a 50 point bonus for using all my tiles first. It didn't work. Didn't I teach this kid anything?
After my girls get home from church tonight we are going to watch Night at the Museum. It's a really cute movie if you haven't seen it yet. I'm saving room for a small bite or two of the desserts. After all I will be writing about my weight loss challenge on Tuesday...sigh!
If you happen to stop by today let me wish you a very Happy Mother's Day to all!
5.11.2007
Friday's Feast, Friday Fill-In
Tell about a time when you had to be brave.
I suppose the first time I ever went in for surgery. I was only 22 and I had both knees replaced at the same time. It was pretty scary, but boy am I ever thankful I did it. I only wish I was allowed to have both my hips replaced at the same time, but they can't. Sadness!
Soup
Which upcoming movie are you excited about seeing?
I've seen Spidey 3 and enjoyed it, but I am looking forward to Ocean's 13 and Pirate's 3 next.
Salad
Name an item you try to always have on hand.
I drink ALOT so I like to have several different flavors of Crystal Light on hand.
Main Course
Imagine the most relaxing room you can think of. Now describe it!
Easy~just a room full of pillows of every shape and size and softness and firmness. All I need is someone to help me down and then up if I ever decide to leave. Plus there has to be lots and lots of blue!!
Dessert
On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being highest), how spiritual or religious are you?
I, personally, don't think you can rate how spiritual or religious you are. To me you either believe in a high power or you don't. I believe that Jesus Christ in the Son of God and I believe that He died to save us from our sins. I know that when I die I will go to Heaven for eternity!
1. It's time for foodage~and I am hungry! Woohoo!
2. Only 13 more days til my daughter takes her final high school exam and graduates two days later.
3. It was a painful day yesterday!
4. I love my pillows!
5. Size is something that doesn't matter, unless you are a rather large person trying to sit in a tiny airplane seat.
6. Mothers:always bring extra love!
7. I'd like to do a little shopping and bossing others around this weekend.
5.10.2007
Thankful Thursday Thirteen
5.09.2007
Thrice Tagged
1. I am not the most organized person in the world, but it drives me insane if my cds and dvds are not alphabetized on the shelf. I'm such a nag that when my kids borrow one of my cds they say, "Don't worry. I will put it back right where it belongs." I sense some sarcasm. Oh, and when it's a collection of cds they have to be put in order of release. That way when I go to listen to my guy, Donny, I know where Puppy Love is and where my Joseph cd is! Please don't roll your eyes~it really isn't too much to ask!
2. My husband makes fun of me because I can tell you exactly what episode of The Brady Bunch it is within two seconds of seeing the setting for the show. Sad, but true. And if you really want to pity me just know that if I see it on the telly I will stop and watch it and enjoy every minute of it. What's your favorite episode? I loved the Davy Jones episode and all the ones that they got to sing and dance in. Me Dork!
3. I have never ever liked cheese. Until recently. Now I can't get enough of it. I never liked eating a piece of any kind or even putting it on my sandwiches, but one day hubs was having a piece of feta and I asked for some. He LOVES cheese and isn't to fond of sharing, but I managed to tackle him to the ground and eat it! I fell in love instantly! Not with him, but with cheese!! Now I ask for string cheese, cheddar, havarti, almost anything except bleu. When I ask for cheese my kids ask, "Where is my mom and what have you done with her?".
4. I'm a flipper. I like to have the remote and I flip, flip, flip! It's drives everyone batty, but I keep flipping until I either find The Brady Bunch, Little House on the Prairie, anything Donny, Andy Griffith, or something that looks tempting like Paula Deen or Brad Pitt!
5. I'd rather eat at a dive than a fancy restaurant. I have been to several dives and the food has always been fantastic and the atmosphere is much more fun. I went to a dive in Pennsylvania once and as soon as I sat down at my dirty little table the man behind the counter yelled, "What do ya want?" I smiled and said, "I don't know. I've never been here before." He yelled, "Menu is on the wall. As soon as you figure out let me know!" So I checked the menu out and I yelled at him, "Hey, I want the corned beef on rye with mustard. And I want an extra pickle!" He smiled real big and replied, "That a girl!" I can't wait to go back again!
6. This isn't really weird or anything, but I love to do word search puzzles and I'm really fast at it too. Whenever the kids brought one home for homework I always did them! I know, I know. Bad momma. At least they always got an A+! I also love sudoku!
7. I am a secret Sanjaya fan......I am also a liar!
8. When I watch America's Funniest Home videos and they show ones that people have fallen or might have been in danger I tend to worry about them...even if it is seven years later. I always wonder what happened to them and if they were okay. I guess I shouldn't watch it anymore!
9. I have a dimple in my chin.
10. I've said it before, but I don't mind saying it again...I love my blogging friends! I have made so many wonderful friends and I keep meeting more! I haven't always thought of the internet as a good thing with all the weird stuff, but I have been so encouraged by all of you with your prayers and kind words and just getting to know one another! I really do love you guys...I hope you don't mind!
I won't tag anyone but if you want to share let me know and I'll come see what crazy things you do!
5.08.2007
A Long Weigh To Go
The simple truth is I need to lose weight...and lots of it. My hips are begging to be replaced with some purty shiny metal ones that make the airport sensors go off! I just love being patted down and searched while everyone watches wondering what I am trying to smuggle into the U.S.
I was very thin in high school~a whopping 110 pounds. It wasn't until I started taking high doses of prednisone with a 2 litre of Mt. Dew that I started gaining weight. Seriously, I started bleeding a beautiful shade of greenish yellow because I drank so much of it!
Now I am not blaming the drug for my problem because let's face it, I've drowned my fair share of Oreos and I've murdered a few defenseless slabs of meat that didn't know what hit 'em!
I have learned this past year that by not eating enough you can actually gain weight. It got harder for me to eat anything when I was in so much pain and therefore I did gain about 75 pounds. Unreal, I know. But the good news is that this past year I have been working with a dietician and I have been able to lose about 22 of those pounds.
Except for church I am homebound. This week I have been bedridden. I now have a porta potty right beside my bed because without being lifted I cannot make it to the toilet which is only twelve feet from my beloved bed filled with my precious pillows. I tell you this not for sympathy, but for hope. I have been this way for close to a year. Even without exercise I was able to lose 22 pounds. It can be done!!
I have been following the food pyramid and eating about 1600 calories a day. I eat a little something every few hours up until bedtime. I had to force myself to eat at first because I just wasn't hungry. I am still on high doses of prednisone which can fool you into thinking you haven't eaten in years, but I just pray and ask God's help. Praise the Lord it is working for me!
I need to lose another 50 pounds. I know it is going to take a long time, but I am worth it! I am having a hip replaced on July 16th unless I can get in sooner. Then I'll have the other one done about eight weeks later. I'm going to work my hardest to lose another 10 pounds by then. Every pound lost will be that much more helpful in rehabilitation.
We are all here to encourage one another and I do ask for your prayers. Please pray that I can hold out until the 16th. It seems so far away, but I've been doing this for a year so I know I have it in me. And please pray for me too because I have been discouraged this past week. I'm trying so hard and it is so scary when you have to depend on others to take care of your personal needs. I praise God for my supportive, caring family. Without them I would be in a nursing home until July 16th. Please pray for them as well because they have a lot on their plates. I want to be able to take as good of care of them as they have me this past year!
5.04.2007
Probably More Information Than You Wanted To Know!
Name something you would not want to own.
I wouldn't care to own a Corvette. I am a Mustanger through and through!
Soup
Describe your hair (texture, color, length, etc.).
My hair is really soft. It is short right now~just right above my shoulders. It is mostly brown, but I am getting quie a bit of gray hair now. Should I highlight it and try to hide some of it? I don't want to be completely gray at 42 years old!
Salad
Finish this sentence: I’ll never forget ___________.
I'll never forget the first time I saw a picture of my daughters! My husband and I both cried.
Main Course
Which famous person would you like to be for one day? Why?
I would like to be Ellen DeGeneres so I could dance all over the place and tell funny jokes and meet more famous people, but especially so I could give away all kinds of free stuff and then donate a ton of money to different charities!
Dessert
Write one sentence about yourself that includes one thing that is true and another thing that is not.
I won $80 one time on a $1 slot machine and then gambled it all alway!
FRIDAY FILL IN
1. I love sugar and milk with my coffee/tea/etc.
2. My surgery date can't arrive too fast!
3. My friend Karen is the opposite of me!
4. Days like today when the sky is the perfect shade of blue and the weather is on the chilly side are so awesome!
5. I am still playing with your dog. (Dumb, I know, but I couldn't think of anything else!)
6. Snapdragons are my favorite spring flowers.
7. This weekend, I'm watching my husband be Patch the Pirate at church and I will be his biggest fan!
5.03.2007
Thursday Thirteen
5.02.2007
Happy? Anniversary?
Tomorrow I go see about my hip replacements and how long the wait might be. I hate being in constant pain, but I am dreading having surgery too. I'll have to have one done and then like six weeks later I will have the other one done. Talk about F.U.N. Slap my hand for griping! I am blessed to live in a country where I can have the necessary surgeries to make my life better. I am ashamed of myself once again for complaining.
Okay, what else? Tonight two people are getting kicked off American Idol! I'm thinking maybe Chris, Phil and LaKisha. I really have no idea, but I hope Jordin stays.
Tonight is our last night for our Awana program at church. I am so sad to leave my girls. I teach the 3rd and 4th grade girls. They have been an awesome bunch this year and worked so hard on their verses and loved haring Bible stories. Many of the girls are unchurched so the usual stories were brand new to them. What a privilege it is to teach them!
My dear sweet mother just stopped by to rub my neck with Ben Gay. Sniff! Can you smell it? I'm weird, but I like the smell. And the heat feels so good on this warm sticky day too!
Don't forget about the scavenger hunt going on at Amy's! Lots of prizes to be won!!
Me and the hubs are going to the midnight showing of Spiderman 3 on Thursday/Friday! I love going to the midnight shows because thats when all the geeks show up dressed up! And NO we do not dress up. We are not that geeky. Go web go!
Question for the day! Do you and your family have your own language that only you guys know what you're talking about? We definitely do and sometimes I forget and use it with my friends and they just look at me like I am bizarre!
I'm passing out big hugs to everybody today!